Posted on October 30th, 2008 by Cheating Wife Cathy
A success story…….
Hi Cathy:
I love the thought of being cuckolded by my girlfriend. At first, she wasn’t so sure - thought I wanted a reason to be with another woman. I’ve convinced her this is not the reason, and she laid down the ground rules - she can have another, but I can’t.
She’s teasing me about it a bit. Plays with my dick, calls it cute and little when its soft. We have a very loving and exciting relationship and are about to take it to this next step. She teases me about other men - those she finds hot. Likes to dance with them. Says she wants to take it to another level. Who knows if she will - just that we’ve gotten to this point makes me very happy.
Any words of advice?
Thanks for being a friend and a cuckoldrix.
M
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First realize you are a very lucky man. Women do not always understand what it is about cuckolding them men find so exciting. And yes, believe me the first thought is ” you just want a reason to cheat on me” then comes the “if you loved me you would not want to share me” stage.
Advice 1 You and she have the relationship, the lover can have her pussy. You should have and keep her heart. That is not near as easy as one might think.
Advice 2 Treasure what you have. She should be worshipped. Again not so easy, but make no mistake, you are competing against a big dick. There is an intimacy that comes from sex. You can not ignore it, you just have to over come it. Making her aware of just how good she has it with you is never a bad thing if it done with a present. LOL You know what I mean, take her to dinner, date her, thank her, worship her.
To your girlfriend, Hi, Welcome to the sisterhood. You are now in the lead, use that. You two need to set down the rules. Not just about he does not cheat but that he does not call the shots anymore. You two need to decide what each one of you want from this relationship. You can do that easy enough, but we, the women tend to make sure everyone sticks to the rules. You can write me anytime.
Cathy
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Hello Cathy:
Thank you very much for your reply. I do realize I am very lucky - sometimes I realize this more than others, but I do strive to serve my girlfriend with every conscious thought about her.
I’m not sure where things will go, but as I said, I’m very happy. The biggest thing for me is having her call the shots. She is working on that, indeed, and that truly excites me and scares me a bit.
She is away on a business trip in Aruba for a week. 8 men and her. She flirts with them, flashes her pussy at them - so she told me last night when she went out with her tight dress and no underwear. She’s been sharing with them about the secret to a good relationship - that the man should submit himself to his woman. Rub her feet, etc. And last night told them she likes her men dressed up as a woman. Told them it brings our testosterone level down a bit. Tells me it helps put me in my place. I’d say they are getting an idea of what she is doing to me. She says - they’ll just respect you more.
Things will probably be a bit more interesting tonight. Because, last night she called me at 4 am, just got in from her night out with the boys and at the local club. She flirted with an island man - tall, large, bald black saxophonist. Told me it excited her as he gave her 3 kisses. Says she is going back tonight and who knows what will happen. Said she really liked it. Wants me to wear panties tonight while she is out and I think about her.
She gets back Saturday. I’ll be thinking of what I can do for her when she gets back. Nice bath, new lingerie for her, foot rubs. Me in panties and stockings (she loves this)
I like this. Thanks for allowing me to share.
m
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You are learning fast my friend. I hope you two of you keep enjoying the fun.